Flitting Between Relationships, Brenda Hoffman, 31 July 2018

Dear Ones,

Each of you is a unique individual existing under the totality umbrella. So it is you are beginning to experience your uniqueness in ways you never before experienced while of the earth.
 
Many of you are lonely. Not because you are truly alone, but because you did not step outside social boundaries in your previous earthly existences. So you wait for approval that will never arrive.
 
For you are transitioning to the rebel status required for a unique being. In time, that rebel label will be honored – but not yet.
 
So you feel alone and odd. Much like the fable of the ugly duckling who discovered he was a lovely swan.

You might contend that some of your political leaders are displaying uniqueness. The difference is that most have not extended their uniqueness to the umbrella of totality. So it is they are unique, but without the heart, you have consciously mastered.
 
You will know who your co-harts in this new world are by the feelings of rightness when you are with them despite their different callings or actions. If their actions are from the heart, you will easily accept their differences. If their actions are from their mind without heart, you will find it difficult to be with them.
 
So it is you are deeper into your heart than you thought possible a few days ago. You no longer need others telling you who is right for you, you will just know. But by adding the ability of just knowing you remove many people from your interactions. Hence your loneliness feelings.
 
Many of you believe such is not a reward but a punishment.
 
Instead, one of your initial evolution pieces is the ability to understand people without words. To sense from deep within you that those who speak the “right” words might not mean them. And those who speak the “wrong” words might be more filled with love than you realized.
 
Words are becoming superfluous for you are beginning to sense beyond words. Almost as if you x-rayed into their beliefs and thoughts.
 
Such might mean you have more surface relationships or you ignore or refuse to interact with them. It does not matter. You are a unique individual beginning to search for those interested in adding additional skills to their skill set.
 
Your loneliness will be short-lived for you have added a joy button to your being that attracts like souls and detracts, unlike beings.
 
Do you remember when you started a new job, you were attracted to some of your co-workers but not all? Or when you moved to a new community, you became friends with some but not all of your neighbors? So it is now. But this attraction is different for it is based on inner-sensations instead of commonalities such as children of a similar age.
 
Even though your new connections will not necessarily be as now expected, these connections are deeper than those of the past for they are based on inner feelings.
 
Many of you wonder how you can detect these inner feelings. A question similar to your teenage daughter asking how she will know when she’s in love.
 
Even though you perhaps hope such connections will be forever, such is not to be for you are now excited about flitting from one sensation to the next. Your new connections will jettison both of you onto the next crossroads of creation.
 
For you are now so focused on your path that nothing or no one is more important to you. Such a statement likely frightens you for you are already lonely, and you want some stability in your being, some sense of belonging to earth in a loving fashion.
 
The shift now happening is not localizing your love or abilities, but expanding them globally. That concept might seem frightening now, but once you are in full swing of inner-directed activities, you will function with joy as you flit from experience to experience using different skills, time frames, dimensions, and qualities.
 
You are not a ‘stick in the mud’ personality. A portion of your 3D lack of joy was your need to fit in a tiny box of shoulds. Now you fly into new adventures and connections daily or in your sleep state.
 
Perhaps knowing that you will no longer form deep and lasting relationships is a frightening thought for that is what you clung to in your earthly existences. Your energies are now directed to what gives you joy. Even though that might mean a few lasting relationships, you are designed for adventure and love – which you will find when you look within.
 
Perhaps such predictions do not seem loving. They are in terms of who you are now. For you must interact successfully with cells of different types, just as is true for the human body within the womb. If some of those cells refuse to interact with a variety of other cells, that infant is born with physical or mental difficulties. So it is you are returning to the womb of sorts to interact with any who will further develop your new being only to leave them with love as you move to the next cell pod.
 
Think of bumblebees. Even though they deeply love the flowers they interact with, their role is to return to the hive with information about flower locations and to help create honey.
 
Your role is similarly focused. So even though you will meet many of the heart along the way, your role is to forge ahead on your path. Something that might seem odd at first, only to discover that 3D connections mean little in comparison to your new Universal cell connections.
 
You are now searching for others of like nature. Not to complete you as was true in 3D, but to push you further along your path. Those connections will be stronger but short-lived for both of you will focus on your new you need instead of 3D needs.
 
You are changing the earth. Such cannot happen if you confine to your life to the few people who have always been in your life. Now you wonder about the happy gardener who finds joy in displaying flowers for all to see. Those who support that role will appear as needed. For that gardener will be the like the flowers bees pollinate. So be it. Amen.
 
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