Uniqueness Is Your Key, Brenda Hoffman, 1 July 2025

Dear Ones,

You need to be you in all your glory.  What is right for you may not be right for anyone else, which frightens you because you are accustomed to being like-minded with at least a few people.

So you feel both lonely and frightened.  “What if I’m all alone?”  And you may be, but this is precisely where you need to be in your transition now.  You did not expect this loneliness, for you thought the transition would be about like-minded people interacting in joy, instead of you finding happiness, but not necessarily with other people.

That is not to say you are alone, but instead that everyone, including yourself, is creating a unique, individualized path to love.  So it seems that love may not be possible, given the diverse actions others portray as love.

Instead of a cohesive vision shared by like-minded people, your new world is now more like the back of a tapestry without a distinct pattern, because not enough threads are visible to determine what the final artwork will look like. ​

You are frightened because you want it to be complete and whole now, so you know who and what you should interact with.  This is a 3D need, rather than a new you action.  Freedom to be you most definitely includes the need to be a unique individual.  Something that cannot happen if you wait for others to join your thought processes and actions.

This is a new world, and you are a new being with new needs and thoughts.  But then, so is everyone else.

You do not have a clear vision of who or what you should be because you are transitioning, as is everyone.  Meaning that millions of freedom ideas are coming to the forefront.  No one is a leader and no one is a follower.  You are all merely unique individuals creating the path that is most right for you, something you have never done before while of Earth.

As you become more independent, you will be amazed and perhaps even frightened that others are more unique and independent than you believe they should be.  For indeed, you know the right way – but then, so does everyone else.

Allow this sorting and sifting of actions and reactions to continue as you discover your correct path.  Ignore what others are doing or saying unless their path seems interesting.  You cannot change their direction any more than they can change yours.  This is a new world with new actions and, yes, rules.  Independence from shoulds and have tos includes not waiting for others to follow your lead anymore than you need to wait until this or that person is on their transition path.

You have never experienced true freedom before while of Earth.  So this messy part, if you will, appears inappropriate and frightening.  You want others to join your thoughts and causes.  While others want the same from you.  This is not to be the case, however, because following your inner voice is a significant part of your transition from fear to love, as is true for everyone undergoing this transformation.

You are neither a leader nor a follower. You are just you, finding those who light your interest.  Something that might happen for a few minutes, days, or years.  It does not matter how long you are interested, only that you gravitate to those people, places, and things that are interesting to you.  Forget what others tell you that you should do or be – you have done that for exhausting eons.  Now it is time to discover yourself in conjunction with others, or not.  It does not matter because uniqueness is the key.

Allow that to be and then begin your freedom journey one step at a time without concern about anyone leading or following you.  You are you, just as it is true for everyone transitioning.

In 3D, actions could only change individuals, groups, and countries if a sufficient number of people followed someone or something.  It is time for uniqueness.  Group thought and actions are no more.

Do not fret.  Your world and being are evolving more rapidly than we of the Universes thought possible a mere few months ago. 

Your world now appears to be a scrambled mess with indications that what was will always be.  Instead, look beyond what you think should be happening and glory in the joy of watching a new world evolve one unique, creative thought and action at a time.  So be it.  Amen.

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