Ignore Bullies, You’re in Control of You, Brenda Hoffman, 22 September 2025

Dear Ones,

Perhaps you are concerned that your life is not improving.  That all of the words spoken by various Universal messengers are false or misleading.  Your life may even seem less attractive daily.

Those of 3D are screaming the rightness of their fears, pounding you day and night with words that indicate you are not capable of living without their very stringent guidance.  Telling you in so many different ways that you are limited in your abilities and, therefore, actions.  And that they are wiser and better than you.  All indicators that they are the leaders and you are a meek follower.

Of course, such is no longer true, but your responses to their bullying seem to produce fewer freedoms than you had before they began their reign of terror.  You continue to be a meek being, hiding in the corner, hoping not to be seen by anyone who might curtail your freedoms more dramatically.

You are cowering in the corner instead of declaring your freedom from those who no longer think and act as you do. ​

You are a new being with new skills.  It is time to start using them.  If you are uncomfortable, create an area of comfort.  If you are angry, create an area of peace.  And if you are frightened, access your inner being, with which you can implement your new skills.

Those you allowed to reign over you for eons cannot permit you to acknowledge your skills or even your interests.  It is to their advantage to have you cowering in the corner instead of standing straight and proud of who you are and what you can do.

Bullies have lost their power, but you continue to allow them more power than they actually have.  If they do this, then you must do that is a 3D response.  What do you want to do?  Who do you want to interact with?  What do you want or need?  All questions that can no longer be answered by those you allow to reign over you, for they do not care what you want or need.  Those who attempt to dominate you merely care about their needs and interests.  In a way, they are your role models, for they do not consider what others want or need because they are the focus of their world.

The difference is that their 3D world is about control, and your new world is about expansion.  The other difference is that your expansion is based on love, whereas their world is driven by fear-based control.

Currently, you are cowering in fear because of your 3D training of how to react to those in power.  You are forgetting that you are the energy source of your life.  You are your life’s power.  It does not matter what anyone else believes, feels, or even wants.  Who are you now that you are no longer of 3D? 

Forget about shoulds, what was, and who others want you to be.  Take control of your life.  You are likely functioning like a young adult who passes all their thoughts, fears, and actions through their parents, instead of themselves. 

You are no longer an infant or even a teenager.  You are a fully equipped new you adult with all the skills, power, and inner strength that entails.  Allow those of 3D to gnash their teeth in fear and anger.  You have a new life to create that does not include 3D shoulds or fears.

You are no longer part of a fear group or a bully’s group.  You are new you with sparkling ideas, creations, and fun.  Allow that to be without concerns about how those you now believe to be in power think you should act or be.  You are in control of yourself and will be forevermore.  So be it.  Amen. 

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