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Overcome Obstacles: Navigate Around Roadblocks First, Cheryl Richardson,19 February 2013

Posted on February 19, 2013 at 8:50 AM

Over the years I’ve spoken to thousands of people about realizing their dreams and accomplishing their goals. By now most of us know that putting an action plan in place with simple steps is what gets us on the path. But, many people never get that far because of common obstacles that get in their way. Handling these roadblocks beforehand can improve your odds for success. Here are some of the roadblocks to avoid:

 

Roadblock #1 – Future Shock

 

Future Shock is a term I use for focusing on the end result instead of taking that all-important first step. For example, if want to change careers but worry about whether or not you’ll be able to apply your current skills to a brand new field, focusing your attention on this “potential” obstacle will most likely keep you stuck. Instead, when you focus your attention on a possible next step, like meeting with a career counselor to explore your options, you put yourself into action.

 

I see the same thing happen with people who want to start a business. Too often they focus on points Y and Z, without giving enough attention to points A and B. For example, if you’re a waitress (we’ll call this point A) who wants to open your own health food restaurant (point Z), focusing on how you’ll put together the right menu or find the perfect location will likely overwhelm you. Instead, if you work on steps B or C, like visiting restaurant association websites to conduct research or finding a mentor who can help with first steps, you’re likely to make headway.

 

The big picture almost always looks intimidating from a beginner’s point of view. Reel your mind in and focus on the small, doable action you can take today.

 

Roadblock #2 – Assumptions

 

Making assumptions will stop a dream dead in its tracks. You’ll know you’ve come up against this roadblock when you hear yourself say things like:

 

I’d really love to get a new job, but I’ll never be able to make the kind of money I make now.

I’d like to be in an intimate relationship, but it’ll be too difficult to find someone at my age.

I’d love to start my own business, but I’ll never get the funding.

Why not give your dreams a fighting chance! When you make assumptions, you give your power away to fears and concerns that may not even turn out to be valid. I’m always amazed at how “insurmountable” dreams can turn into reality with a little faith and elbow grease. For example, when my friend Maura wanted to start her own interior design studio, she made the assumption that she couldn’t begin without a retail storefront and the proper funding. When I challenged her to focus instead on getting her first client, her business got under way. Soon after, a corporate client came along, hired her, and with the monies earned from this big job, she was able to rent a small studio.

 

Replace your assumptions with facts.

 

Roadblock #3 – Fear

 

It’s easy to think that the fear we feel when starting out will stay with us, or even worse, increase over time. But, with every positive step in the right direction, your courage muscles get stronger. And, here’s something else: excitement neutralizes fear. As you take action to fulfill your dreams, every success you experience, big or small, will fuel your enthusiasm to forge ahead and accomplish even more challenging goals. With this enthusiasm in place, you’ll work your way through challenges with more ease. For example, if you finally decide to go back to school, you’ll probably find that your excitement about learning something that’s of interest to you will outweigh the fear of having a heavy load of homework.

 

Roadblock #4 – Going it alone.

 

When you feel frustrated or unsure of your next step, ask for help immediately. For most people this takes practice. Give your assumptions a litmus test by sharing them with someone you trust (preferably an optimist). If you’re not sure where to begin, brainstorm with a few friends.

 

I saw a great example of this during a workshop when a woman in her mid 50′s said that she wanted to be a ski instructor, but felt she was too old. When I asked the group to help refute this assumption by brainstorming ways in which she could fulfill this dream, she received a host of great ideas including creating a class called “Skiing for Chickens” (geared towards those over 50). The support from others moved her from a place of inaction and disbelief to a place of excitement and motivation.

 

Over the years I’ve been blessed to work with amazing clients who have taught me that dreams become reality when we focus on the steps just ahead of us. So get going. Here’s some good news: When you step out, take action and go after your dreams, a powerful Divine Force will support your efforts once you make your intentions clear!

 

Take Action Challenge

This week do the following:

 

Choose one goal you’d really like to pursue.

Identify any assumptions that may get in your way.

Then, put these assumptions aside while you determine your next step (remember, look for step A or B).

Take action on one step this week (if you get stuck, be sure to ask for help!).

Create a sign that says: Excitement Neutralizes Fear!

This week’s video is an awesome six-minute story about how youth learn (it’s really how we all learn!) and it came to me from Suzy Becker – a writer, teacher, and gifted artist who uses her genius in a fun and entertaining way. Teachers take special notice! You can find it here.

 

Life Makeover for the Year 2012(sm) is written and produced by Cheryl Richardson.© Copyright 1999-2011 Cheryl Richardson, P.O. Box 13, Newburyport, MA 01950, www.cherylrichardson.com. All rights reserved. Used with permission.

 

Have a question for Cheryl? Call in during her live Internet radio show -- Coach on Call -- on the Internet at www.hayhouseradio.com. The show airs live on Mondays at 5pm ET (2pm PT) and is replayed throughout the week.

 

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